Must have been truly awful for the wife to find him, what an image. Hope the children were not witness to that. May he rest in peace, he must have been tortured to do something like that.

Just goes to show that you really don’t know what’s going on inside a persons head no matter how happy & normal they appear to be…very sad.

I have read different opinions on Gary speed’s suicide in the last few days, people calling suicide a selfish act and so on. We need to understand that a person that committed suicide really saw no other way out of pain, otherwise they would not have went through with the act. Judging people that commit suicide is not helping at all, it is adding to the pain and guilt that people are carry around already. People should be encouraged to break this taboo, bring all the fears and pain out into the light and we can examine and work through this problem. Adding pain to the pain that is already present is not very intelligent.

And May Gary Rest in peace
Prayers for his Wife and children and Family that they may find some comfort and support with helping each other through such an extremely difficult sad time……