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China diver’s family ‘hid’ mother’s illness

Diver Wu Minxia was not told her mother had cancer and her grandparents had died so she could ‘focus’ on Games.

Gold medalists He Zi, left, and Wu Minxia, right, pose with their medals after the 3 Meter Synchronized Springboard final.
Gold medalists He Zi, left, and Wu Minxia, right, pose with their medals after the 3 Meter Synchronized Springboard final.
Image: Mark J. Terrill/AP/Press Association Images

THE FATHER OF a champion Chinese diver has reportedly admitted hiding news that her mother had cancer to keep her focused on the Olympics, triggering criticism of China’s ruthless pursuit of victory.

Diver Wu Minxia, 26, scooped gold in the synchronised 3m springboard at the London Olympics, becoming the first diver in history to win golds at three consecutive Games.

Her parents had gone to extreme lengths to ensure their daughter’s success, including concealing the news of her mother’s eight-year battle with breast cancer from her, the Shanghai Daily reported this week.

The family also kept news of Wu’s grandparents’ death from the diver, the report said.

“Wu called us after her grandmother died, I gritted my teeth and told her: ‘everything’s fine, there aren’t any problems’,” Wu’s father Wu Jueming told the paper. Wu’s parents found such lies were “essential” to ensure their daughter could keep focused on her training, the Shanghai Daily said.

“We never talk about family matters with our daughter,” the father said. Thousands of Chinese web users took to Sina Weibo — a Chinese microblog similar to Twitter — to condemn what they called the parents’ “white lies” as an example of the harshness of China’s government-funded sports system.

“Apart from making people crazy, our Olympic strategy also makes people lose their humanity,” one online commentator said. “Our national sports system is disgusting,” said another.

China’s Soviet-style sports schools, which select and groom potential athletes from a young age, often with hours of tough training every day, have produced many world champions and the country is leading the gold medals table at the London Games. But it has also been criticised for pushing young athletes too hard.

The Shanghai Daily said Wu’s parents rarely saw their daughter, keeping track of her activities by following her microblog account. They travelled to London to support their daughter, but did not meet her in person before her diving final, it said.

“We’ve only sent our daughter one text message since we arrived in London, to tell here we we are safe, so she wouldn’t worry,” Wu’s father said. ”She doesn’t call us often because she’s busy with training,” the father said.

“We’ve known for years that our daughter doesn’t belong to us any more.”

- © AFP, 2012

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Comments (20 Comments)

  • I’d rather have my kids than an Olympian ….

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  • Very sad.

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  • Brian 02/08/12 #

    “We’ve known for years that our daughter doesn’t belong to us any more.”

    This sentence pretty much tells it all. There may have been repercussions (financial or otherwise) if the family *had* actually given her the news.

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    • Same thing happened to one of the shooters in the Bejing games – she won her medal and *then* was allowed contact her mother for the first time in months, only to learn that her mother had been fighting breast cancer for several months.

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  • It seems the pursuit of victory in sport has become too extreme.
    Kids in China and Russia are virtually tortured by severe 24/7 training and for what? a medal.

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  • Pros and Cons… Sure you have no childhood and you are tortured every day for years with a punishing training regime. But say you get sporting success: after that there’s glory, success, a relatively lucrative career in coaching the future generations, your pick of potential lovers. All by the time your 20. What’s the alternative? A life of poverty probably working in some dirty factory bent over a machine doing 12 hour shifts for the next 50 years for €60 a week. It’s a tough choice.

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  • The Chinese are by no means perfect, but no western nation should bear such temerity as to pass judgement. I guess it’s always ok to win if you’re western. Drug cheats, rule benders and manipulates. It’s always intolerably undemocratic to loose to a better person only if they happen to be non European. Ha ha!

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  • It saddens me that thejournal.ie has decided to play the China bashing card this Olympics. What about Korean fencer Shin A Lam’s unjust semi final defeat in fencing because of a dodgy clock? Thejournal.ie did not report on the consolation medal that she was offered and what she rightly refused. Imagine if it were the Beijing Olympics and that cock up with the clock happened. I betcha that story would play out for a while. Commenters would be salivating in outrage at the bog standard and corrupt Olympics.

    London Olympics administrative cock ups. Look the other way. Alleged Chinese human rights abuses. Now that’s a story!

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    • tbh i found only these cards could trigger the passion for the audience to comment, other than these , they dont care. to be fair there are loads of discrepancies between east and west, not only China, but also Japan and Korea they will surely take group value or the the success of their decedents more important than their own. when i was going through college entrance exams in China my father was on a lung operation but my family still hide this fact from me. I feel very sad but its just because the parents their in China don’t wanna disturbe their children on their way to success and they just choose to suffer by their own. Others cant simply judge these by saying loads of crap like these, its their own choice.

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    • There’s an extreme difference between a dodgy clock and what has been basically the removal of a daughter from her parents for most of her life Paul, and the fact that you are evening using it as an argument doesn’t really say a lot.

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    • The more you comment, Paul, the more I begin to think you were planted on this site by suits in Beijing to relentlessly defend and promote China as the greatest thing ever

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  • The cold war is over Val and Antaine. Stop being so naive and start to think with that grey matter between your ears. You believe everything the western media throw at you which is basically China/North Korea/Russia/Cuba = BAD USA and Brits = GOOD. Maybe this young girl would be better served spending her day in her room away way from her parents playing an Xbox and eating Pizza and MacDonalds. That would be far better than being a world beater right?

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  • Weekend at Bernie’s

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  • If you’re not first, you’re last

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  • The grandparent was dead, nothing was changing that, so why mess the emotion of a highly tuned athlete with negative emotions. The future for these kids will be secure. Congrats to these kids, move on.

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  • “We’ve known for years that our daughter doesn’t belong to us any more.”

    So sad!

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  • John 02/08/12 #

    ???/ ? ???/ ?? ???????’stupid westerners’ ???/ ? ???/ ?? ??? losers ???? ???/ ? ???/ ?? ????? China is the best. ???/ ? ???/ ?? ????? Hahahaha.

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